5 Reasons To Buy And Use A Small Dildo

Big dildos (and penises) might get all the attention, but that doesn’t mean smaller dildos don’t have a lot to offer. You don’t have to be a size queen when you buy a new dildo. You only need to choose what works best for you — in any size.

If you’re curious about smaller dildos and how they can be used, here are just five reasons why you might buy one and love it.

More Comfortable Vaginal Penetration

Bigger is not always better during vaginal penetration. Some people have conditions like vaginismus that makes penetration difficult, if not completely impossible. Others can be penetrated but it’s painful, making sex miserable for them. You don’t have to put up with sex that hurts. You’ve probably already been given plenty of advice to just add lube or relax, but that’s not always enough. Sometimes what you need is something smaller.

Thinner dildos, often called dilators, can help your body become more comfortable with penetration. Even a dildo that falls just below the “average” — which is only five to six inches — may work. The key is to find what feels good to you in the right size.

New to Anal Penetration

A lot of people begin their anal play experience with butt plugs, anal beads, and other anal sex toys. But if you’d prefer to  start with a dildo — especially for strap-on sex, you definitely need something small. In this case, “small” really means slender and probably smooth. When your body isn’t used to penetration, it can be extremely uncomfortable if your sex toy is too wide.

As with any anal play, always add lots of lube, go slow, and stimulate other parts of your body (like your penis or vulva) to help you relax. But starting with a smaller, smoother dildo will definitely help, too. As you adjust and learn what you enjoy, you can always move up to bigger sizes.

Blowjob Reality and Fantasy

Do you want to deep throat your partner — or anyone you hook up with — but can’t because your gag reflex is too strong? There’s nothing wrong with practicing on dildos. Start with something small and thin before trying larger sizes. And this should be something you want to do — not something a well-endowed partner pressures you into.

Dildos are also great for threesome fantasies, especially for blowjobs and penetration. You can pretend you’re going down on your third when in reality, it’s a dildo. Small dildos can play a part here, too. You can take more of the shaft down your throat or you can skirt that gag reflex problem.

First-Time Double Penetration

You can enjoy double penetration in a few ways:

• Two penises in a vagina
• Two penises in an anus
• A penis in a vagina and a penis in an anus

If you’re missing that second penis or you’re not ready for two people yet, a small dildo can be a great way to explore double penetration. Again, lots of lube, patience, and additional stimulation will help you have a better experience. But there’s no need to start with a big, thick dong when it’s your first time. Play with two small dildos or a combination of your partner and a small dildo until you’re ready for something bigger.

Because You Like Small Dildos

You don’t have to have a “reason” to play with a small dildo other than that you enjoy them. You don’t have to justify your desires to anyone. If you prefer smaller toys, buy them, use them, and get off in the way you love best. From penetration to blowjobs to fantasies, whatever reason you have is your own. Not everyone has to be a size queen or king.